Note: The easiest way to play with her ass, is to put your arm over her leg and reach around from behind. This will increase her anticipation. Just keep in mind that this area is very sensitive so be extra gentle with your teeth. Today I want to help you to overcome your fear of eating pussy and to finally learn how to with nothing but your tongue. There are times i go down on my wife and lick her pussy and she just lay there and not sure if she enjoying it. This will drive her crazy.
Step 4: Kiss The Area Around Her Vagina I know you want to eat her out like a hungry wolf. This is the position you should start at When you reach the top, stop, pull away from her so you are no longer making contact and start over from the bottom. They can feel self-conscious when getting intimate. You can also give her clit a break by sucking and biting on the inside part of her thighs. In general, her legs and thighs will be shaking and trembling and she may be arching her lower back and lift her pelvis. Should I use my teeth on her clit? Basically, do anything except making contact with her clit and vulva. And keep a steady pace.
My last piece of advice is to keep working on her clit once she is close to climax. Now make it wide and flat like a pancake as demonstrated below: You will be holding your tongue in this position when performing the Pancake, keeping it relaxed, wide and flat. So, when you are making your way up her vulva, right before your reach her clit, you should increase the pressure so that the base of your tongue is forced under her clit slightly. Enough pressure to hold it in place and manipulate it but not enough to bruise or break the skin. Passion, intensity and a strong connection — all that good stuff.
You can always identify how aroused she is by listening to the way she breaths. There are several bulletproof signs you can look for while eating her pussy. You should use minimal pressure for the first few minutes and gauge her reaction to it. Gently probe with your tongue and locate her vagina and clit. After setting up your mindset the next step here is to tease your way down her naked body I assume you have already.
Now, and her pussy are the only things that you can eat after several days or even weeks of hunger. The clitoral hood is the little flap of skin that covers her clitoris. By the way, expect pain and soreness in small muscles around your throat after doing this technique for some time. This leads to a buildup of body heat and warmness in her lower belly. Agonizing Slow Down advanced — If you have gone down on your girl, brought her to orgasm repeatedly and can now do it with ease, you should try the Agonizing Slow Down. Ask her if she is ready. Now you want to go to work on her clit.
Now you can combine your fingers and your tongue to the ultimate weapon of. Feel free to explore some other techniques or positions before you take her over the top. It just means you need to spend more time getting to know her specific preferences. They go through the motions, do this, touch that. Blow some air lightly over her cooter. I remember how we learned all kinds of useless things in our biology classes in high school, but nobody ever taught us something that could actually change our lives. If she flinches, then wait longer.
My wife is em-barest and don't want to do it. But how do i make her cum? Just like guys, most women have a refraction period when they have clitoral orgasms. Work that pussy so it becomes yours to own and do what you chose with it. The speed at which you do this depends on her body language. I play with the clit, hit the g spot, grab her tits, and almost everything else, but still nothing.
When stimulated it can lead to very powerful vaginal orgasms. This will already make her lose her senses, but you can make this experience even more intense for her… Step 7: Slide Your Tongue Up and Down You have fingered her long enough. Ask her to sit on your face. To reach this area, slide your fingers up until your second knuckle. The way how most guys understand this is by nervously sliding their tongues from left to right and from the bottom to the top. As you continue to move upwards, she will feel the texture of your tongue stimulate the bottom of her clit, adding a further dimension to your oral sex skills.
I can guarantee you that edging her like this will cause her to have one of the most powerful orgasms of her life, if not the most powerful. She knows that all you want to do is to eat her out and she wants that too. You can lick around the opening and may even love the taste of her there, but you want to get back to her clitoris sooner rather than later. Truth: learning how to eat pussy is like learning how to ride a bicycle. Just as a cheat code, you may use a bit of wine to ease your minds into it the first few times. The first time we she let e due it she cum and dam and was like a dam broke but we been with each other for 7 years now and i can make her go.
Her Anatomy In the diagram below, you can see the most important parts of the outside of her vagina aka her vulva. Again, spend some time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities until she has calmed down. The labia minora and labia majora are super fucking sensitive, too. While doing so you also want to read her body language and listen to her breath and follow her rhythm. Keep in mind that all these tips are generally applicable for every situation and technique you decide to use.